Let him feel from the start that you plan on taking your time as much as you like.Kiss his chest and stomach, letting your tits graze his cock.Kiss his thighs, knowing you are just a few torturous inches from where he wants you. This should get the point across that he’s on your time.

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Gently place his hands away from his body and fix him with a stern and sexy look.

Or tie him up if, like me, you love rope and the sight of a man tied up and hard for you gets you wet as all get out. (Here’s a great article all about ropes, BDSM and the like.) When a man submits himself to your oral pleasure, he’s on your clock.

This means you can take as much time as you like teasing him or pleasuring him slowly.

I was such a late bloomer that by the time I finally gave my first bj at the relatively ripe age of 21, I was so stoked to finally have cock in my mouth that I gave myself over to it with raw enthusiasm.

Really the core issue here, judging by some of the information that’s already out there, is I have to figure out how to impart the ability to enjoy oneself during the act.

I believe with a sufficient amount of passion for providing your lover with pleasure, much of the technique will follow naturally. What can I actually do with my word count here that might actually cut through the noise and boundlessly transform your next cocksucking endeavor? Just giving yourself that couple of seconds to look him over, knowing that whatever happens next is completely up to you, should put a delicious chill in your spine.

While I’ll be discussing technique, too, what I most hope to convey throughout the individual tips and tricks listed here is the astounding potential for bliss within the act of oral sex – not just for the receiver but for the giver. When you’re with a lover and you’re about to go down on him, his body becomes your playground. There is tremendous power in taking control of a man’s cock.

Often when I tell people I’m a seduction coach, they’ll reply, “Oh, you mean you teach those classes on how to give blowjobs?

” In the past, I’ve always replied, “No, because if you think I can teach you how to suck off your man better than you can and I’ve never even met him, then one of us has a problem. Possibly all three.” One day I came across an article on just that topic, and it was the most awful, problematic tripe about oral sex I had ever read.